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This is very not good.

My ex, [livejournal.com profile] shadowflyer , the kiddo's dad, is in the hospital (I don't yet know WHICH hospital) on dialysis. Looks like his chronic kidney condition has deteriorated. Don't know how long he'll be there.

Kiddo is, naturally, a wreck. Visiting this evening and bringing his laptop.

More details as events warrant.

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Date: 2010-09-21 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cbpotts.livejournal.com
Oh honey! Thoughts and prayers for you and your kiddo and for your ex's recovery. This is such a fearful thing for little ones. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:27 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
*hugs* Thanks.

The kiddo is 15, which in some ways makes it better, but in some makes it worse -- she's sadly over-experienced with important grownups in hospitals, from assorted grandparental health issues, to the time our then-triad-partner discovered she was diabetic only when she collapsed in diabetic coma, to the stroke and eventual death of her godmother two years ago. Little kids' fears can be calmed by soothing generalities ("X is in the hospital so the doctors can make hir better," that sort of thing). A 15-year-old is plenty old enough to understand just how serious it really is.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] txanne.livejournal.com
Hugs and good thoughts to all.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:42 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-09-21 02:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gnomi.livejournal.com
Best wishes to him.

Do you happen to know his Hebrew name and his mother's Hebrew name?

Date: 2010-09-21 02:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lintra.livejournal.com
Mojo for all, especially the kiddo. I know what a mess my 15yo would be if her dad was that sick.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:49 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
He's Yitzhak Moishe and his mother is Devorah. I just looked on the copy of our ketubah (technically by Jewish law we're still married, after breaking up with [livejournal.com profile] kalessin I never pursued a get) and it looks like his father's Hebrew name is Micah, assuming I'm reading the handwriting correctly.

Thank you.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:50 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-09-21 02:55 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] dpolicar
Crap.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:56 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
That about sums it up.

Date: 2010-09-21 02:58 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ckd
Best wishes and good thoughts to all concerned.

Date: 2010-09-21 03:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cathouse-mary.livejournal.com
Buggerdyfuck.

Good mojo to all of you. I've got a cedar and sage smudge that I've been keeping for a special occasion, and will light it off at 10:00 PM your time.

Date: 2010-09-21 03:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ghilledhu.livejournal.com
Oh,yikes! Healing thoughts for all.

Date: 2010-09-21 03:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] auspeople.livejournal.com
Oh crap, hon... that really sucks! Thinking of all of you!

Date: 2010-09-21 03:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gnomi.livejournal.com
He has been added to the list.

Date: 2010-09-21 04:06 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-09-21 04:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] surelle.livejournal.com
Yikes- I'll be thinking of you guys.

Date: 2010-09-21 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ahf.livejournal.com
*hugs* good thoughts for everyone.

Date: 2010-09-21 04:18 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] gem225.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. I hope that his condition improves soon and that he can go home, and I'll keep him, you, and your child in my thoughts.

Date: 2010-09-21 04:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kitwench.livejournal.com
Oh dear - sending good vibes and hopes that things improve soonest!

Date: 2010-09-21 05:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greeneyes-rpi.livejournal.com
Damn. So sorry to hear this - you guys are all in my thoughts. Please keep us updated!

Date: 2010-09-21 05:28 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-09-21 05:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alchemine.livejournal.com
So sorry to hear this - will be thinking of you all.

Date: 2010-09-21 06:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com
Oh, dear -- I hope he is recovering and that you all get through this time with no more surprises.

Date: 2010-09-21 07:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] getheren.livejournal.com
Aw, sheeeit. Give him a hug and well-wishes for me. the kiddo too.

Date: 2010-09-21 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kriz1818.livejournal.com
Oh no ... please do keep us posted!

Date: 2010-09-21 09:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fairylogic.livejournal.com
Oh no!

Hugs and healing thoughts to you and yours.

Date: 2010-09-21 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbsegal.livejournal.com
Gods. I'm sorry…

Date: 2010-09-22 05:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hammercock.livejournal.com
Oh, shit. :( Best wishes to all of you. *hug*

Date: 2010-09-22 05:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] delerium69.livejournal.com
I'm sorry, that's cruddy.

Date: 2010-09-22 08:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] earthling177.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear it, here's hoping he gets better soon!

Date: 2010-09-22 10:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ap-aelfwine.livejournal.com
*hugs* to all of you.

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