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Note to self: [livejournal.com profile] melovechocolate has extra-sensitive ears. Just because she enjoyed a band at Warped, when you were sitting on bagged-up tents far enough from the stage to avoid the Giant Mud Pit of Doom, does not mean she'll be able to take them at concert volume inside the corrugated metal box that is the CT Expo Center, even with earplugs.

This wasn't the most successful concert expedition of the year. [livejournal.com profile] cherrybutterfly got sick and had to bail, so I was casting around last-minute to find someone to take her ticket... she would have paid me for it, but I wanted the company and I wanted to find someone who'd use it. [livejournal.com profile] _ccmc and her friends were already provided for, but [livejournal.com profile] mhaille kindly agreed to go with me, even though it meant last-minute kid-wrangling details. It provoked this entertaining exchange:

[16:21] [livejournal.com profile] mhaille: so what does one wear to go to a young angsty band?
[16:23] [livejournal.com profile] rikibeth: me, I am wearing my Horrorpops T-shirt, jeans, boots, and a hoodie. I considered a skirt (anything suitable for Haven would work, of course) but if there is going to be fangirly smooshing, perhaps best not.


Note: the CT Expo Center lets the vultures at LAZ charge $5 for parking, even though the overflow is a stupid flat piece of gravel which could be managed without attendants.

We met up outside the venue, got in in plenty of time to get swag and hear the opening bands. Reggie and the Full Effect is just weird, and I get the feeling they are not taking themselves at all seriously. [livejournal.com profile] mhaille agreed with me that their closing song did take the riff directly from the Psychedelic Furs, but the rest of their stuff didn't sound like that at all.

Alkaline Trio... you know, they are STILL my favorite current band, and they were better than they were in May, but they just are NOT at their best, live. Instrumentally, they were playing well, and it's not as if I don't understand the impulse to play really, really loud live... and at least this time their sound engineer made sure you felt the kick drum in your guts, not your scalp, and you could distinguish the guitar from the bass lines... but over a certain volume, it appears that the singers CAN'T hear themselves on the monitors, no matter what efforts they make. The first few bars of "Mercy Me" (my hands down favorite track off the new album) were painfully in the key of L before the singer got it together. Guys? Nobody will miss those extra few decibels off the top, I swear, and your vocals will sound a whole lot better. Good mix of stuff off the new album and old favorites... but I probably won't pay to hear them again live. Sad. At least the kiddo appreciated their stuff.

People-watching was also pretty entertaining. [livejournal.com profile] mhaille and I were having Older-Than-Dirt moments -- "hey, where were all these goth kids when WE were in high school?" "Well, they were AT my high school, I just wasn't cool enough for them, you see." "Those are ten year old boys in eyeliner and Dead Kennedys T-shirts!" "You know, the little girl in the miniskirt and the stripy socks with Sally on them and the pink Converse low-tops looks cute and all, but girls that little should NOT wear eyeliner... and her mom should really NOT have worn something so similar, it winds up looking undignified. I'm glad I wore jeans." ([livejournal.com profile] mhaille was doing the Catholic-schoolgirl uniform look, and carrying it off very well, herself.) I feel positively conservative, now, allowing [livejournal.com profile] melovechocolate the blue streaks and occasional nail polish but no other cosmetics, and encouraging the boyish styles.

When MCR started, I didn't even try to brave the fangirl crush -- I stayed back where there were sight lines. [livejournal.com profile] mhaille was working on four hours sleep and decided to bail. I was starting to really enjoy it, but [livejournal.com profile] melovechocolate was NOT, because it was noticeably louder than Alkaline Trio had been, and she was physically uncomfortable... so I was a good mommy, and we left after four songs. It's a pity. I'd have liked to stay.

So, outdoor venues or smaller club shows for the kidlet, for a while yet. Loud ones, I'll save for ME.

Date: 2005-10-17 11:36 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] atalantapendrag.livejournal.com
Glad you enjoyed it.

Be sure and let me know if that disc I sent arrives safely, I'm paranoid because so far no one from that batch of packages has gotten theirs.

Date: 2005-10-17 11:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cherrybutterfly.livejournal.com
Sorry I bailed Chicka. But, we are on for the next Shag and Dark Millenium!

:)

Date: 2005-10-18 12:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cherrybutterfly.livejournal.com
I had the best outfit for it too. Grrr. Let me know what you want to go to next, and I am there!

Date: 2005-10-18 12:54 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
How up are you for a weeknight? Next Tuesday, 10/25, the Cruxshadows are playing at Haven! $13, but I heard there's a discount if you go in costume.

Date: 2005-10-18 01:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cherrybutterfly.livejournal.com
Ooooh. I LoVE them! i can rearrange 10/25 for 10/26...Let me ask just to make sure so that might be possible. will let you know tomorrow!

Date: 2005-10-18 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ame-chan.livejournal.com
heh. I've been goth since goth began, before either of my children were a bright idea... I'll be dammed if I avoid dressing up because one of 'em happens to be doing the goth thing at a show we're both at!

Glad you had fun though, it sounds great.

Date: 2005-10-18 02:55 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
Yeah, you also don't look your age, hon. The woman with the cute ten-year-old weraing too much eyeliner looked a very haggard 45 and trying hard to deny it, and way too porky for the skimp of her clothing, too. Haven't you said before that spandex is a privilege, not a right?

And a Horrorpops T-shirt and jeans and my Double-H Stompy Boots of Doom had their own style, anyway.

Date: 2005-10-18 05:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tikvah.livejournal.com
Earplugs for Charlotte during concerts might not be a bad idea, both for her comfort now, and for protecting her hearing later. I'm losing some degree of midrange hearing, and it's probably related to all the loud concerts I went to when I was in high school and college.

Date: 2005-10-18 07:11 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
She has not been to ANY non-Celtic concert without earplugs yet. I insist, and wear them myself. I've lost some top range myself, I'm fairly certain -- and I didn't wear earplugs back then either. If I can knock 30 db off the impact with just a couple of wads of foam, so much the better.

This was too loud for her WITH the earplugs. She was complaining of bone conduction effects. It really WAS louder than it needed to be, even taking into consideration all the fangirl screaming.

Date: 2005-10-18 08:19 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
Yeah. I suggest appreciating these bands on CD.

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